A few minutes ago, one of my classmates who also came to Taiwan as exchange students was talking to me through MSN. "I have brook up with my girlfriend yesterday. " I was surprised by this message and asked him why the relationship was ended. He just kept silence, sending some suspension points to me.
In the first half year of 2009, I would never imagine they could break up, since they always hooked up with each other. They shared the same interests and they looked so matched. Everyone around them agreed that they were born together. Even a guy who had a little crush on the girl held the same opinion.
I think both of them had thought about what would happen after they guy came to Taiwan. Would the distance affect their relationship? I believe they both had a suspicious of that. At that time, I had joked with the guy, "Chances are that your girlfriend will abandon you if you are not by her side!" I didn't know that the joke would come true.
If the guy didn't come to Taiwan, would they end up together? I doubt that because they have to face the "distance" issue two years later when they are graduated. As I know, they are from different provinces. It will be perfect if they find satisfied jobs in the same city but who knows what will happen in the future? The guy may stay in Xiamen or go back to their hometowns or go to bigger city like Beijing or Shanghai, so may the girl.
I am kind of pessimistic about the college love. Of course there are successful examples around, but there are more failed couples. So many factors could affect the relationship especially when the couple graduate from the college and face the practical problems.
I will take their experience as a lesson, hoping I can find my Miss Right soon.
If the guy didn't come to Taiwan, would they end up together? I doubt that because they have to face the "distance" issue two years later when they are graduated. As I know, they are from different provinces. It will be perfect if they find satisfied jobs in the same city but who knows what will happen in the future? The guy may stay in Xiamen or go back to their hometowns or go to bigger city like Beijing or Shanghai, so may the girl.
I am kind of pessimistic about the college love. Of course there are successful examples around, but there are more failed couples. So many factors could affect the relationship especially when the couple graduate from the college and face the practical problems.
I will take their experience as a lesson, hoping I can find my Miss Right soon.
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